About Me

My Story in a Nutshell

 

These days, I work as a published author, educator, and professional trainer for good quality, generally capable single men who love women but struggle in the relationship space - not only because of the craziness out there in the dating and relationships arena - but also because of debilitating personal issues such as shyness, awkwardness and social anxiety around attractive females, underdeveloped interpersonal skills, low self-esteem in terms of masculine worth, and "Nice Guy Syndrome."

 

In the beginning...

 

I do not start out well in life.

 

Due to a pattern of trauma in childhood, I suffer a catastrophic mental and emotional breakdown as a 5 year old.

 

My personality fails to develop normally and I end up spending over 3 decades trapped in chronic depression, chronic loneliness and isolation from the human race, bondage to destructive addictions, and gross failure at everything in life that matters.

 

But I Make it and Recover

 

I try some quite dangerous, "outside the box" strategies on my way to getting my right mind back, but I survive and prosper. The experience of walking the walk of recovery and healing from a devastated life, to one of peace, confidence, and fulfillment, gives me a very fine-grained and powerful appreciation of what it takes to change on the inside, so as to become strong and all-of-a-piece on the outside.

 

Now I give back...

 

I am alive and well today, because in spite of everything, there is still goodness in the universe. If not for that, I would have been in the ground for a long time now.

 

Therefore, it is my responsibility to honour such goodness by doing what I can to help others who have been similarly assaulted and damaged by the madness out there that wants your heart, your mind, your soul, and your money, far over and above your well being.